Perhaps Tantra may help you ???
Indeed, it's hard, but possible. Through learning Tantra you start considering new facts about your body and self being.
Any man who arrives to a point when feels ready to take his sexual life to next level (sacred-sexuality) may be able to convert the instinctual pulse to softer move through self-insight.
Who's is "tantric-man" ?
It's more about your attitude to sex, your body and the ability to filter various stimulations that run in your "dirty mind" learn to use differently his energies, being aware to his "fuel-tank" in order to manage his high priority activity for another moment for example.
How daily masturbation affects you?
Let's face it, daily basis masturbation means you are drained of energy along the day time, so sex is not the main think that fill your day, (indeed yes, in your mind, but it's not real, you know it!) |
Saying daily manifesting signifies you have no sex life, moreover keeping this habit go you become more disconnected from the idea of love or any energy-interchange - which is very necessary to your harmony.
This loop may burn yourself at certain moment and you need any sort of medication.
The mentioned symptom is motorizing some other damages in cognitive level, stuck you in the "comfort-zone" it's so easy to pulse play looking for quicky scene .. and that you done, and oops sleep and to start another crazy day tomorrow.
I'm your tantric guide.
I'll train you to hold it... to climb on walls, but not to ejaculate anytime you feel sort of stressed or horny, you need a therapy - any kind of therapy to relax you, to calm your nervousness..
Masturbating through fantasizing perfect scenes are reducing both your ability either talent to generate similar scene in reality.
Because it's so comfortable, when your energies are lows (perhaps you don't notice it because you are mostly in office/home) in result you spend more time alone than together.
But why to learn Tantric Masturbation?
In tantric masturbation you learn either to do first love with yourself and becoming aware to your psychological and emotional theme.
Through exercising and passing the classes of this course, you will start taking higher consciousness considering your body-sensations but on the same time also considering your reservoir capacity level - you don't want to be exhausted if in 6-7 hour you are dating someone, or even need to impress (attract) a new investor to your business.
When you are meeting people after sex with someone - you are shining - and charged with new energy that attracts.
When you are masturbating (daily basis) - you become less attractive (attractive = interesting) due to your energy fields are low, people will see you sort of negative, and yourself you usually feel "grey"/ low mood
Maybe you already under the same low-energy-circumstance right now - The question is if you ready to take a chance learning tantra in order to increase your energies and power?
Learning tantric-masturbation will help you in channeling better of your energies - and to build a bigger capacity to attract the person you like having real pleasure (even if only mutual-masturbation)