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¿La monogamia no funciona muy bien para ti?

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¿Tienes miedo del compromiso a una persona?

Todos estamos buscando el amor, a alguien que acompañará hasta el fin

Para abrir la relación <> debes ser muy responsable a tus emociones por que no sea compatible a la mayoría de gente, sólo a los siguientes tipos:

monogamy

  • Inteligentes que sabe qué quieren y con mucha experiencia sexual
  • Comunicativos – manteniendo auténtica comunicación con sus parejas (sin secretos)
  • Grandes espiritualmente– Personas que han realizado un proceso completo de alguna terapia por conocer muy bien sus impulsos, emociones temores y fortalezas

¡Tome su tiempo!

Antes de  entrar en una relación de compromiso, es muy importante trabajar en ti mismo, aprender y conocerse mejor, también a disfrutar (investigando) en diferentes experiencias sexuales hasta revelar qué te gusta sinceramente, que son tus altos prioridades sexualmente en las no quieres negociar.

Quita el deseo de hacer pareja por un tiempo, simplemente investigar a tí mismo y tu libido.

¡Todo vendrá en su tiempo! el amor y la intimidad van a aparecer sólo después de que tú mismo podrías tomar la iniciativa en arriesgarte por investigar tus pasiones y inquietudes hasta que sientes aburrido.

A lo largo de las veces de intentos y la profundidad que vas a probar experiencias íntimas, aprenderás lo que quieres, cómo lo quieres, y cómo proceder.  Después de un tiempo te podrás distinguir fácilmente los tipo de persona que necesites para sentir uno con alguien y muy a gusto.

 

Todos estamos buscando el amor con alguien especial

Sin embargo, con todo el respeto a la educación entre gente, la compatibilidad sexual debe venir primero antes de cualquiera historia romántica que la desarrollaremos.

Una persona atractiva tiene que medir en la vida cara a cara, no en imágenes.

El lenguaje corporal y la energía de la persona afectan a 60% a la atracción sexual, sólo 40% tiene que ver con la seca imagen como la pedimos por whatsaap

Pero ¿por qué es tan difícil encontrar a la persona adecuada?

En la mayoría de los casos juzgamos el físico ignorando las calificaciones de la persona (es exactamente lo que hacen los animales, ellos fijan solo en el físico  – el más grande, más fuerte, la más bella gana).

Como seres humanos estamos considerando la condición socioeconómica en fin de agregar unos puntos a la apariencia física:

  • Su trabajo
  • Su coche
  • su formación
  • Su reloj
  • Sus ropas (marcas)
  • Su cuenta bancaria

Por desgracia, en la actualidad la gente conducen tipo ciegos en aspecto espiritual, cree solo a lo que se ve, y hay algunos malos que manipulan la situación, demostrando que son la mejor cosas aunque sería una trampa.

Estamos en una nueva era, es tiempo de mirar y muy poco tocar, juzgamos todo según la vista, y las gran empresas imitan este concepto por aumentar sus ventas de los <> productos por vestir los en colores y vista.

amore uomini

ES MUNDO DIGITAL – TODO ES AIRE Y FANTASÍA

Aa través de pantallas digitales, títulos de textos, imágenes y vídeos, quien tiene una buena cámara, conocimientos de diseño gráfico podría ganar  y atraer a más “candidatos” que los demás con talentos básicos.

¿Por qué la gente se encuentra más en la línea que en la calle?

En la calle recibirás la impresión completa sobre la persona – pero sigues creyendo a lo que ves a través de la pantalla.  

¿Que pierdes de ligar en linea?

  • Saber si hay química (olfato, gusto, voz, compatibilidad mental / emocional) y muy buena atracción sexual.
  • Saber la comunicación – no hay mejor manera de hablar, pero por desgracia, la gente está más escritura que habla.

La gente quiere enamorarse – pero olvida amar a si mismo

El caminar en las nubes, sentir que puedes ganar a cualquier enemigo y superar los desafíos, pero un día la guapa mascara cae y ves la real persona que no has logrado antes.

LA ADICACCION A LA ADRENALINA

Personas venturosas son adictas al alto nivel de adrenalina en la sangre, cuando no lo es, se sienten enfermos, aburrido y vacíos. Algunas personas usan la motocicleta escalar montañas y otros se enamorará fácilmente con cualquiera persona atractiva para sentir vivo. Ellos venturosos no temen a morir (morir significa también no temer perderlo todo por el riesgo que tomen). Esta actitud nerviosa les trae sensaciones vivas y una ilusión maníaca.

TOMA TU TIEMPO

Puede tardar mucho hasta aprender a ti mismo, ya sientes que no vas a querer más saltar de una aventura a otra, se considera el tiempo de la madurez, te sientes más sentado, estable contigo mismo y puedes contener la idea de una relación monógama sin sentir que pierdes algo afuera.

Cuando la pareja habla de relación abierta en tiempos de llegar cada uno consigo mismo a una armonía interior, saben gestionar sus emociones, cada uno sabe muy bien su rol sexual, que le gusta hacer estamos hablando de situación muy diferente de ellos que hablan de relacion abierta solo por no alcazar profundizar la relacion que han fundido.

Toma tu timpo, sin prisa, incluso si has llegado a 42 años- disfruta el proceso de conocerse a ti mismo!
Al final vas a ser mucho más feliz de lo que algunas personas que han iniciado una relación (no muy profunda) hace 10 años.

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¿Citas ciegas o mandar mil fotos antes de quedar?

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citas ciegas

¿Por qué tomar el riesgo de una cita ciega si te puede enviarte 10 fotos antes de decidir salir de casa?

Todos queremos conocer personas nuevas, y las aplicaciones para ligar están llenos de posibilidades de ayudarnos conocer la persona de nuestra vida.

¿MAS FOTOS?.. PARA QUE ESTE SEGURO

Quién no conoce la actitud moderna, te van a pedir más y más fotos, de tu cuerpo, de tu cara, y a veces en una acción sexual para estar seguro de que seas el candidato correcto y no haya decepción al verte cara a cara.

NADIE QUIERE PERDER SU TIEMPO – PERO AL FINAL TERMINE PERDIENDO HORAS EN CASA SIN VER A NADIE

Las citas ciegas han desaparecido del mundo, citas ciegas tienen que ver en los años SIN el smartphone, con solo un numero de telefono estabas hablando por un tiempo con esa persona y solo si hubo compatibilidad mental se han quedado en algún lugar neutral en la calle o parque.

cita ciega

¿De verdad que crees a lo que ves?

Quiero que mi persona tenga un cuerpo espectacular como que veo en las revistas de salud, que sea masculino y equipado, quiero ver todas las fotos posibles para estar seguro

Al final aunque estés esperando al hombre de la foto la realidad hace su cosa, y te encuentras con un hombre con este cuerpo pero personalidad y mirada que no tienes nada que ver con el /ella.

En el mundo de diseño gráfico, profesionales cameras, instagram y efectos digitales es muy difícil predecir que la persona de la foto sea verdaderamente tan buena.

SI TODO QUE SE VE ES MENTIRA, BUSCA LA VERDAD AFUERA DE LA IMAGEN

No crees a las fotos que te van a mandar, busca factores más reales que allí no se puede manipular.

Hablar en teléfono

Mucha gente que busca solo sexo por las aplicaciones, evitarán de hablar por teléfono. a veces por ahorrar dinero de llamadas y a veces que no se siente muy atractiva de hablar con una persona desconocido.

Solo 1 minuto hablar en teléfono antes de quedar te dará la información que necesitas saber – si a esta persona te vas a gustar.

La voz humana puede darte toda la información

Si a alguien te dice, ¿por qué quieres escuchar mi voz; para saber si soy masculino? quizás ya está consciente en lo que signifique la voz y aunque sus fotos de cuerpo (plan gimnasio masculino) que ya se ha enviado se va bajarlo puntos y no quieras quedar con el.

La voz te da 70% de la información sobre la persona que hables, pero sus fotos te den solo los 30%

¿Qué se puede aprender de la voz?

  1. Nivel de inteligencia – en pocas palabras aprenderás sobre la educación de la persona
  2. Autoestima – El tono de la voz y las respuestas (o preguntas) te dará este factor
  3. Fumador – Hay voz de fumador grave y de ellos que se cuiden la salud
  4. Masculino o femenino – Es de lo más fácil factor de aprender..
  5. Mentiroso o honesto – En unas preguntas aprenderás si esta persona es de confianza o no.. entrénate de hablar con gente y toma tus conclusiones.

 

Si no tienes saldo de llamadas, usa tu voz via Whatsapp

El whatsapp te permite grabando un mensaje de voz y enviar a la persona mientras charlas, pero claro, no es muy natural grabar un mensaje mientras sigues borrando las malas versiones hasta sentir convencido, aparte, quieres sentir que preguntas y respuestas.

Obvio que en la mayoría de los casos un mensaje de voz en whatsapp antes de quedar la cita ciega sería mejor opción que basarse solo en las fotos y unas frases escritas.

Emotions and Psychology

Me? A sex addict? No way.

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Sex addict

Hi dear Osho,

It was a good session today. Thank you!

Good because it steered up things in me that brought up new questions and new inquiries in my journey of love, sex and intimacy. 

 

I left our session feeling frustrated, confused and a incomplete. But that’s not a bad thing. It was a good point for me to slow down and process some of the things we talked about. 

 

Our conversation around “attraction” fascinates me. I’m a big believer in the law of attraction and know that what I broadcast I attract right back to me. But what you said today in our session made me want to explore more. You said that “what we attract is already in us”, and, that the questions of “What do I want to attract that is good for me?” is a question I don’t think I’ve yet to have asked myself. I suspect that I’ve attracted what I’ve been broadcasting unconsciously. I want to change that. I want to attract in a deliberate way and create my life from there. 

 

I wanted to share some of the details of my journey towards love, sex and intimacy to help fill in the blanks in my story and to help you get to know where I’m coming from.

I hope you’re ok with me writing you outside of our session times. I’m serious about doing deep work with you and get the sense that your guidance, love and support will lead to major shifts in who I am in the world. I feel like we’re moving towards a deeper commitment in our work together so it felt natural for me to want to write you more.

 

My big awakening

My big awakening around the lack of intimacy and true love in my life lead to big changes. I ended a 17 year marriage to a man who was emotionally incapable of intimacy and left everything in my life behind to go on this journey of self seeking. 

When it happened, the divorce took me to a dark place of loneliness and anxiety. What filled up that void was sex. Empty sex that only satisfied the hunger momentarily and never really brought me the joy and connection I was seeking. I was having so much sex that at one point I started exploring the possibility that I may be a sex addict. Sex was on mind non stop. I was seeking it in dark places with anonymous interactions that only left me feeling lonelier. This was a turning point for me. I found myself one night in a sex club in San Francisco, walking the dark corridors looking for the next encounter. That night, for the first time as I was cruising the room, I saw something new. I saw the loneliness, desperation and hunger in the guys walking by. I saw their sadness and their longing for connection. And then I realized that I’m not any different. That what I want is the same thing and that this was not the place I would ever find it in. 

That night was the beginning of my inquiry into my own sexual habits and to how intimacy shows up in my life.

 

For the first time I asked WHY.

  • Why do I seek anonymous sex in dark places? 
  • Why do I like and get so turned on by glory hole sex?
  • Why do I masturbate so much? Why do I watch porn?

 

Questions I have yet to ask myself

I went back to my hotel room and typed all those questions into google. I was curious to see what would come back in response and what I saw, was pretty shocking. Every page and every link that came back pointed to sex addiction. 

 

Me? A sex addict? No way. 

I was curious enough to explore. A few days later, I found myself at my first twelve step meeting of sexual compulsive anonymous. I was surrounded by other homosexual men who were facing their own dragons and seeking healing. I learned that even though I was seeking intimacy, I was confusing it with intensity. What I was facing was an intimacy disorder.  

Yet, I wasn’t convinced that I am a sex addict. I kept going to twelve step meetings for the following six months. I met hundreds of men who are stuck in a cycle of shame and darkness. I did the work the program dictated, I read the books and learned a lot.  Yet, I didn’t find healing there.  The dragons that were running people’s lives were alive and well and the twelve step rooms became a place to escape to, to hide from the dragon, to confess the shameful acts. 

I don’t believe that identifying myself as a sex addict is a path to healing the problem I faced. I don’t believe that addiction is a disease as the 12 step program wants the world to believe. In fact, I don’t really believe in the concept of addiction. I think it’s a convenient term used to describe behavior and often time people hold onto that term as it helps them get an identity they can work with but at its core, i believe addiction is a myth.  I believe that getting to a place where we feel like we are addicts only points at a disconnection from our inner being and only when we learn to trust our inner being and live our lives from that place, we don’t need whatever it was that we thought we are addicted to. It simply dissolves. And that connection to our inner being? That’s love. And that’s intimacy. And that’s what’s been healing me from the unhealthy behaviors I’ve engaged in for so many years. 

The more I learn to open up, receive, be authentic, be true to myself, know what I want and be vulnerable, the less I seek anonymous sex, the less I watch porn (I stopped watching porn a few months ago and have not had any desire to watch it since). I think that’s pretty good progress. 

Yet, I still need guidance. I want healthy sex in my life. I want sacred sex. I want to experience sex as an expression of love and intimacy, not a substitute. This desire has placed me at the leading edge of the homosexual world. I’ve become a student of sexuality and intimacy and the more I learn about myself, the more I see how dysfunctional the gay world is.  How wounded so many guys are and how lonely so many of us homosexual men really are. I feel like my own healing and my own growth may be a catalyst to the work I am meant to do in the world. I am pulled towards this work. And I love it. 

The point of me sharing this to you now (rather than getting into it in our sessions) is that I’m intrigued by the idea that I’ve attracted men into my life who have been closed and unable to do intimacy while at the same time I’ve created deep, meaningful, intimate relationships with woman. With men, sex has been the entry point and often times, with men who are disconnected from their hearts. Sex has been compartmentalized into a category separate from love and intimacy. 

I suspect that as much as I love sex and have gotten really good at “doing” sex, I carry with me a fear that separates sex from love and intimacy. I’m curious on how to bridge this gap. I’m also curious why I am having a love affair with a woman where sex is not part of the picture. Part of me wonders if the universe sent Angi to me to teach me about true love and intimacy, to give me the safe space to open up, be vulnerable and show my true self and for sex to not get in the way. It’s could be a practice run at intimacy to get me ready to attract a lover who I can experience love, intimacy and sex in a balanced and equal way. 

Until then, I’m curious as to where our work together can take me to. I’m looking forward to what develops. And, I have a request from you around *how* we work. 

My request is that we allow more time for our sessions (one hour just doesn’t seem enough time to get to the core of things), perhaps two hour sessions and, that when we do speak, that you are in a location that is not so distracting (it was hard to hear you speak with all the coffee shop background noise today as well as you being disturbed and distracted in the midst of our conversation). Doing our work by phone can work for me if you are up for that. We can do skype audio without the video component which would make the connection smooth and undisturbed. Let me know what you think.

Another idea to throw into the mix is to meet for a retreat sometime in the future. I know the power of having personal retreats (I lead them for my clients) and would enjoy being on the receiving side for a change. A lot of magic can come out of a retreat. Something to think about and explore if you like. 

How about we speak again next Saturday when you are in Mexico? It will be my Sunday morning in Sydney and could work well for me. I’ll stand by to hear back from you.

Safe travels!

G.

Bisexuality

Tantric Masturbation how to be patient and not to ejaculate?

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In tantra you are asked to learn flexibility like in Yoga developing nervousness tolerance is must.

With Tantra you  may  learn to reduce your ejaculations in order to increase pleasure and orgasms!

Ask yourself:

  • What time of the day do you feel more horny?
  • What do you prefer: boyfriend for lifetime or hookups with strangers?
  • How many times do you ejaculate in sex ?
  • On a scale from 1 to 10; How noisy you are experiencing an orgasm?


Your life has began because of sex and passion and will end when your sexuality stops.


I wish you to be sexy and horny most of your life – that promise in most cases very good health.

Unfortunately in some cultures were who have been decided to dismiss sex concept to something more of 2 people (after marriage) They have been published that sexuality is dirty, bad and horrible.

The sex repression is influencing millions of people who are living in not fulfilled relationship  suffering by the years from illnesses and heaviness.


How come that there are straight married men desiring to touch a penis of other man finally bottoming (penetrating his ass)?

Bare in mind that homosexuality is more natural than current society believe, and if you limiting yourself this level of excitement / curiosity you are totally shoring your fire element in life finishing old and weak earlier than normal.

 

Most dangerous epidemic, called LONELINESS!

YOU CAN CHANGE IT BY DEVELOPING TANTRIC CONSCIOUS LIFESTYLE  

What about trying “Anal Tantric Sex Knowledge”?


Take advantage of 6 hours by the course of tantric sex for men presented by Osher:

“After a few videos this starts to give a very comfy feeling when you watch his videos, as if you were there in person with Osher listening to an old friend. Osher’s accent is thick, but completely understandable throughout all the videos. It makes listening to him even more endearing in my opinion than it would have otherwise watching the videos. He is truly passionate about his personal interests including Tantra, homosexual relations with other gay men, and obtaining a higher level of understanding and awareness in your sexuality”

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I lost my vg top and bottom at 19

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Hello I’ve been dealing with sexual issues since I first became gay, when I was a teen when I hooked up with oral I would not talk the person again.

I lost my virginity top and bottom at 19, but went into a relationship where I was the bottom only for a very big well endowed guy for a year and a half.

After that I was confused and had a hard time finding myself, because when I topped I couldn’t last for longer than 2 mins sometimes less and didn’t want to bottom because of my first relationship. Throughout my 20’s I abused myself sexually with lots of hook ups, hate to say it but at this current moment been with over 300 guys and not even sure if that is accurate. For a while I thought I had a sex addiction, but felt it was the norm in gay society.

I’ve cheated in all my relationships and most of my relationships we have 3somes or 4 somes that sometimes end badly. At this current moment I have a loving partner who is amazing and verse, but I find myself sexually distant from him, I don’t wanna top or bottom or do anything which makes me sad, but also find myself wanting other men. We’re getting married in Oct but I feel scared because if we’re not having sex, it could mean doom.

This all started when I became more spiritual, I feel I’m on the right path, but also not being sexual anymore. I was reading up on tantra and even looked into going to a body electric retreat until I came across tantric massage. I feel I’m needing help with rediscovering my sexuality so I can be intimate with my fiance and what to explore with him vs not even kissing or touching throughout the day, I’ve lost several bfs now due to this behavior.

Any help would be great,

Thank you very much Alex.

 

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Dear Alex,

First of all you are very young, real matureness starts at the age of 31 

It doesn’t matter how many sexual experiences you had, the confuse about the sexual role before the age of 31 is natural and also spiritually supported until you will arrive to the point of aligning your soul, ego and physical instincts. 

In younger age each of the mentioned facts is pushing to other angle and may generate tensity and suffering. 

The core to your existence is the sexual energy and before escaping to spirituality is important you will learn your nature – choosing the sexual role that align your emotions too, so from there spiritual awareness will be easy to contain and maintain for higher growth.

I strongly recommend you to take the both courses online I present the entire male sexual – spiritual process in order to help you reaching your place in the world in body and via the outer experience. 

 

 

Both courses in total will take you through 10 hours of nonstop knowledge and will confront all the obvious thought you carry with yourself right now to a new shore. 

 

The sexual consciousness you will achieve through the classes will serve you to align your direction in sexual field and to be able to focus on what is relevant that will serve your spiritual growth with any person you will choose to be.

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¿Casi imposible? Ser Feliz, Contento, Apasionado Sin Satisfacer a Nadie.

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No todos sienten felices.  pero la mayoría sigan declarando que sí…

¿por qué la felicidad es tan importante, por qué algunos pagarán mucho para ser feliz, y otros sentirán víctimas que no han recibido lo que esperaban?

Felicidad es concepto místico; no siempre muestra sonrisa una persona feliz, la felicidad se llena de dentro, tu boca estará callada pero la sonrisa en tu estómago te hará más completo y más con paz.

¿Por qué ser feliz nos parece tan obvio, tan necesario, y con orgullo mostrar que somo feliz (contentos) aunque será de mentira?

Cuando sientes vacío interior hay razón para ello; yo conocí muchos trabajadores de fábrica que gana poco y trabaja muy duro, algo en su corazón estaba diferente, eran felices (de verdad), han encontrado dentro esta luz, esta vida que los dio la motivación de levantar todos los días al trabajo y pensar cada uno en sus objetivos o gente querida que ellos su tesoro.

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Tu fantasía sexual – Mirar adentro tu alma

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 La real diferencia entre los siguientes fantasía, deseo, sueño es la tangibilidad a la realidad.

Desafortunadamente la mayoría se engancha en la fantasía muy lejos de su potencia y capaz física y mental sintiendo perdidos por no conseguir lo que están seguros que quieren…


La fantasía en palabras sencillas es una ilusión, querer algo que no existe o no tiene ningun vinculo con la realidad.


Otra diferencia importante para diferenciar entre fantasía a deseado sueño son los ambos pasion y coraje.
Si eres de ellos que guarda tus deseos para el último año de tu vida, o quizás al año cuando retires o ganes la lotería, estás muy lejos de quien se considera feliz.

 

En cuanto a la fantasía sexual, si logras entender a la esencia de tu película fantástica, estar de acuerdo analizar a lo que de verdad quieres (pides) vivir dentro de esta rara historia (fantasía sexual) podrías avanzar mucho más hacía un lugar donde se siente contento, completo y en paz como nunca.

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FAKE MASCULINE GAY MEN (ARE MASTURBATING MORE THAN OTHERS?)

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This morning someone wrote me why I’m relating masturbation addiction issues to be more common among gays comparing to straight ?

“Why do you list masturbation addiction ONLY under the Gay Issues”??

Lot of my male friends experience masturbation addiction. Your section implies that only gay males will experience this. It’s NOT listed under straight male issues.
 
I am therefore requesting that you either remove it from the gay males list and add to the straight males or list them as the main concern on both.
 

You are more likely to generate more business if you list it as a straight issue because it’s MORE LIKELY to be one and THERE ARE MORE STRAIGHT MEN THAN GAY MEN that exist, therefore the math is very easy.

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Thanks so much for your reflection.
But please don’t take it very seriously. 
Of course that I can unify the entire list and to add more sexual symptoms without a need to refer any to any group (gay or straight).
I’ve put it that way because along the last 12 years the vast majority of my public are these homosexual that are married to women and feel more comfortable in seeing themselves under the “straight-category”.
In general the word “gay” is very limiting to what the reality is – I prefer to consider myself “homosexual” (not gay).

“GAY” CONCEPT (STARTED 100 YEARS AGO) DOESN’T REPRESENT AN ENTIRE “HOMOSEUXALITY”

When most of people in the world are feeling easier using the “Gay” term to express their attraction to same sex…  Because until not many years ago saying HOMOSEXUAL was related to old taboos of darken times, still many would prefer using saying “gay”.
Since the “gay” concept has succeeded to become very popular around the world “gay pride” promoting the “gay idea” toward the straight people that needed to change their attitude to homoseuxlity.  Now, a lot of homosexual men (including me) aren’t like to use the “gay” concept to represent themselves.
Saying gays is coming with a bunch of new stigmas which are mostly reflecting a lifestyle that only 60% are taking part of. in other words, only 60% of homosexual men are taking part of gay-world (socially), it comes with the way they behave, dressed, express themselves ext.. (Gays are great but aren’t representing the rest 40% who aren’t take part in this typical mentioned style).
“Homosexuality is purely speaking about a sexual attraction to same sex; Gayness is combining 2 terms on same time: sexual preference & lifestyle.
For instance:
“Gays” are similar idea to “pinkies”, “hippies”, “rocker people”;  they are all sub-group inside straight world (sexually speaking).
In the end of the day, gay people by definition aren’t represent the collective amount of HOMOSEXUAL men.

MOST OF MY CLIENTS (CONSIDERING STRAIGHT) ARE HOMOSEUXAL (WE KNOW IT) BUT NOT THEMSELVES.

 

They are Married/ straight that are mostly attracted to transgenders/ crossdressers people or sometimes to gay feminine types.  (They are defining themselves “Straight” because for them they are man and attracted to another concept of female – nothingelse)

 

LEARNING TANTRA IS FIRST STEP TOWARD REAL LOVE & CONSCIOUSNESS

See the trailers below:

Tantric AnalSex & Love 2 Men from Osher Elias on Vimeo.

Tantra for gay shy men

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