Ben Yehuda
Tel Aviv


Are You sure that you are Straight and this is best for you?

It doesn’t matter your age, you may get confused at one point of your life; not sure about your sexual orientation. Are you convinced that to have a wife is the best plan to every man?   The Straight/ Heterosexuality definition: Heterosexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior between persons of the opposite sex or gender. […]

The man who couldn’t see his penis because his belly

You see every them every day walking next to you in the street, working in banks, supermarkets and if you are gay there some BEAR bars were it’s kind of trendy to be fat man, as for some people ironically they are seemed to be stronger than the thinner guys, even that the real truth is that is the opposite fact. Fat men are weaker and lose a lot of points in bed.

Anal Fissure: A difficult pain to speak about

August 11, 2016
Emotions and Psychology

Men who experience fissure will tell you in private conversation about the hell they lived; every day going to bathroom is torture pains.

But gays (bottoms), will tell you that the fact of not being able to have anal sex added more suffer and depression to their life (it lasts for a month in most cases)

Are “gays” and “homosexuals” same people?

Most homosexual men (same as me that don’t like to consider themselves “gay”) would prefer to meet people in neutral places where there is not GAY-CODES. Indeed some feminine types will appear from time to time in these neutral sites such parks, but I guess the fact they are there without partying right now with some fake friends drinking cocktail in the neighbourhood, I will consider them more relevant to me.

Shy Guy vs Extrovert sexual man

Shy guy

Dating advice is outside the scope of this site, with this article being a semi-exception. Over the years several women have written me to tell me reading this site has helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing. With that in mind I thought I’d try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it’s like to be a man who’s really shy and inexperienced with women. At the end I give a few thoughts on what to do if there’s a shy guy in your life you’re interested in.

How to satisfy a woman?

A woman really doesn’t want much from a man. Although these qualities are hard to find, they are qualities of which every man is capable: Lots of guys pamper a woman’s breasts during foreplay but forget about them during the main event, which is a shame because the extra stimulation can lead to a bigger […]

Regular vs Tantric Male-Orgasm!

Tantric Sex: Sexual Energy and Breathing I know you, you love sex, you want to have it day long. Tantric sex, then, may help you to achieve so much more as sexual beings, without or with penetration. We have been conditioned by society to believe sex without penetration is “merely” foreplay and nothing more. However, penetration […]

The top and bottom dynamic in gay relationships (hookups and romance)

Some guys exclusively bottom. Some exclusively top. Some guys switch it up on a given romp or even during a given romp. Some guys don’t do anal at all. Often times, since many guys meet other guys via apps, top/bottom/vers designations are established before meeting or even before messaging each other. When meeting in person with no prior introduction, they talk about it and depending on what both of them are looking for will adjust accordingly.

אל תקרא לי גיי!

תגיד את האמת: אתה גיי או הומו ? (זו לא קללה!!) זה העליב אותי עד מוות כשמישהו קרא לי ״הומו״ עוד מכיתה ד’. עד סוף שנות ה-80 (ובאפילו ה – 90) זה היה הדבר המשפיל ביותר לקרוא לאדם: “הומו”, במקרה שהיה בזה מעט מן האמת – זה היה גומר אותו, משמיד את גבריותו וזהותו ברגע. כאסטרטגית […]

אימון, יעוץ והכוונה

8 שנים של מסע וסיכון: זה מה שלקח עד התגבשותה של השיטה: ״בדרך זכרית מודעת״ על בסיס טנטרה וקבלה מעשית. זוהי בעצם פסיכותרפיה טנטרית הפועלת כשיטה של סדרת מפגשים בני 5 עד 10 שבועות. המפגשים בנויים על מודול שאלות שמטרתו לאמת את המטופל עם המקומות ״החשוכים״ בנפשו. השיטה מתבססת על שיטות הוליסטיות שונות שקובצו לשיטה ייחודית המרוכזת […]

אוננות טנטרית לעומת אוננות כפייתית אצל רווקים

רבים הם הגברים השואלים, האם אוננות יומיומית (או אפילו רב-יומית) אכן פוגעת בבריאות? המציאות היא שגברים רבים משתמשים באוננות כדי למצוא נחמה לתסכולם המיני, הנפשי, או הפיזי. לעיתים רק לשם הפגת שיעמום, ככלי עזר להירדמות בלילה, או לשם הרגעת הסטרס בגוף וכו’… בפוסט זה אסקור מספר זויות הסתכלות בנושא, כפי שבאות לידי ביטוי בעולם המערבי (הקונבציונאלי) […]