In tantra you are asked to learn flexibility like in Yoga developing nervousness tolerance is must. With Tantra you may learn to reduce your ejaculations in order to increase pleasure and orgasms! Ask yourself: What time of the day do you feel more horny? What do you prefer: boyfriend for lifetime or hookups with strangers? How many times do you […]
After that I was confused and had a hard time finding myself, because when I topped I couldn’t last for longer than 2 mins sometimes less and didn’t want to bottom because of my first relationship. Throughout my 20’s I abused myself sexually with lots of hook ups, hate to say it but at this current moment been with over 300 guys and not even sure if that is accurate. For a while I thought I had a sex addiction, but felt it was the norm in gay society.
If you are circumcised – Focus on the FRENULUM and the corona of gland
If you are uncircumcised – you better to push the fore-skin down and by water based lubricant use the inner part of your palm above the Frenulum
It’s may be very exhausting to be on the sex cruising path searching everyday new candidate to channel your sexual fantasies out. Indeed it’s much better to search for sex on daily basis than masturbate on daily basis, because you are at least go out from yourself practicing social activity by speaking to new people.
In a world of easy access to things you may consider yourself a very rich man comparing to what 3rd world live nowadays.
if a man just looks for the pleasure of the physical body, he cannot experience tantric sexuality because he does not have a spiritual connection, and because he will not able to understand his partner’s needs.
I thought as a gay bottom, pain after butt sex is just normal. However, this kind of “pain” is “sharp” pain and it only happens during anal sex and during/after bowel movement.
The dominant world religions treat sexuality as (at best) a distraction from the spiritual path. On the other hand, some spiritual traditions integrate sexuality into their spiritual practice. Some regard sexuality as an integral part of life, a gift to be honored and enjoyed. This section contains classic texts which discuss the sacred nature of sexuality and affirm the positive aspects of sex. Some of these texts (the Tantric) are esoteric and touch on the intersection of the spiritual and the physical. Others (such as the Kama Sutra material) are more rooted in the physical world.
It doesn’t matter your age, you may get confused at one point of your life; not sure about your sexual orientation. Are you convinced that to have a wife is the best plan to every man? The Straight/ Heterosexuality definition: Heterosexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction or sexual behavior between persons of the opposite sex or gender. […]
Dating advice is outside the scope of this site, with this article being a semi-exception. Over the years several women have written me to tell me reading this site has helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing. With that in mind I thought I’d try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what it’s like to be a man who’s really shy and inexperienced with women. At the end I give a few thoughts on what to do if there’s a shy guy in your life you’re interested in.
When it comes to G-spot stimulation, most guys know one classic technique: Insert a finger inside her vagina, palm up, and use a come-hither movement to stimulate her. But what if that doesn’t work? Don’t give up your search for her hidden pleasure zone just yet.
A woman really doesn’t want much from a man. Although these qualities are hard to find, they are qualities of which every man is capable: Lots of guys pamper a woman’s breasts during foreplay but forget about them during the main event, which is a shame because the extra stimulation can lead to a bigger […]
Good session today. Thank you. Good because it steered up things in me that brought up new questions and new inquiries in my journey of love, sex and intimacy.
I left our session feeling frustrated, confused and a incomplete. But that’s not a bad thing. It was a good point for me to slow down and process some of the things we talked about.
Tantric Sex: Sexual Energy and Breathing I know you, you love sex, you want to have it day long. Tantric sex, then, may help you to achieve so much more as sexual beings, without or with penetration. We have been conditioned by society to believe sex without penetration is “merely” foreplay and nothing more. However, penetration […]
Some guys exclusively bottom. Some exclusively top. Some guys switch it up on a given romp or even during a given romp. Some guys don’t do anal at all. Often times, since many guys meet other guys via apps, top/bottom/vers designations are established before meeting or even before messaging each other. When meeting in person with no prior introduction, they talk about it and depending on what both of them are looking for will adjust accordingly.