A woman really doesn’t want much from a man.
Although these qualities are hard to find, they are qualities of which every man is capable:
Lots of guys pamper a woman’s breasts during foreplay but forget about them during the main event, which is a shame because the extra stimulation can lead to a bigger orgasm for her.
Plus, it’s important to pay attention to more than just her nipples, since her entire breast is packed with nerves, especially the underside. When she’s on top, use your fingertips to draw wide, slow circles, starting around the perimeter of one breast and spiraling in until you’re just about at her nipple.
Then use your hand to cup and lift the underside of her breast, and lick around her nipple before covering it entirely with your mouth and sucking gently.
UNDERSTAND YOUR WOMAN
Many men today don’t take time to figure what it is that their ladies really want. They assume sex is like a pair of socks or face cap or all such items that have the ‘one size fits all’ tag. Wrong! For you to score those awesome points in bed, you need to know your lady in and out.
Take time to ask her about things that turn her on and find fun ways to make these things come alive.
There are different strokes for different folks. Some ladies get turned on by listening to Rock Music, others get turned on by having mild liquor, chocolate and stuff.
Some others are turned on by beards and facial hair, others by the smell of male cologne and bla bla. The onus is on you to discover her deepest fantasies and go right on to make those happen.
FIND AND TICKLE HER G-SPOT
Doggy style is your best bet to hitting her G-spot. But then again there’s a new approach to this: Get her to lower herself on her elbows instead of her palms, then thrust in with gentle strokes initially; and then work it into a faster, rhythmic penetration. As you get into her like this, you are certain to hit and stimulate the G-spot.
GENTLY BITE HER EAR AND NECK
Her ears and the neck regions beneath them can be super sensitive, so if you know how to nibble on these parts you are sure to get her extra in the zone, and on your way to a great orgasm.
Bring her to climax with oral
A luxurious oral-sex session allows her to kick back and enjoy being spoiled. (Sound familiar?) But different techniques may feel more or less pleasurable to her on different days. To figure out what’s going to work best for her each time, be sure to use a variety of moves. Try licking softly, sucking, and using a firm, pointed tongue and then a wide, soft one, and take note of which she responds to the most enthusiastically. When you sense that she’s about to orgasm—her body will tense up and she’ll start breathing more quickly—go back to the move that elicited the biggest moans, and continue doing it until she climaxes.
TEASE HER BEFORE THE REAL DEAL
It is often said that the anticipation of something is better than actually getting it. Think of when you were saving for your first car, your first gold necklace, your first trip abroad and all that stuff.
Remember how it felt as you neared your target
Do you remember how it made you sleepless during the night till you finally achieved it and it didn’t mean so much anymore? Exactly.
That’s how sex also feels. In truth, chances are many guys will never be able to get their ladies into great, multiple orgasms. But then again the feeling of getting her mind build into pleasurable fantasies can be really great for you and could serve as a catalyst for great sex.
Be more aggressive
The number one thing women want is for you to be more aggressive in bed. That means handling her body with strength and confidence, which can be insanely erotic for her. And it doesn’t require a lot of work or advanced skills on your part.
In fact, doing just one take-charge thing can spike her arousal level .
A few to try:
In missionary, take her wrists and hold them above her head, pinned to the mattress. When she’s on top, hold her hips and push/pull them back and forth, so her clitoris grinds against your pubic bone. And when you want to change positions, don’t do it slowly or politely—grab her and put her where you want her.